Why I don't like the book-Overview

So- have been asked to elaborate on why I do not like THE book. . .and ok- to be honest and fair it is not really that much about methodology per se. . .don't get me wrong, it is pretty bad and drives me nuts as a scholar. . .
HOWEVER
That is not my real issue with this book. . .where to start, hmmmm
How about the premise? I was really surprised and well, kind of shocked by her approach to this research. The idea of dabbling into the world that I have occupied for the majority of my life kind of unnerved me. . .this idea that to understand poor people you had to pretend to be like them smacked of elitism that made me kind of feel defensive from the start. . .I felt the line in the sand between my white trash brethren and myself and her side. . .and that is probably the last thing in the world she planned- but her interaction/confrontation in Maine with the Maids illustrates that disconnect. I use Holly as an example- she is maybe in the early stages of pregnancy, and when she confided in Barbara that her husband made her go to work despite being dizzy and sick. . .do you really think it is just low wages that these workers have to deal with? It is ONE PART of the lives of people not getting by, and you know what? We have a totally different perspective about our jobs. . .one you totally cannot and do not understand. The work stoppage to get Holly to stop working? Really?? Like George in Key West, the Maids of Maine were going to have to live their lives as you saw them, for the foreseeable future. . .in that world you visited, the one I live my life in, you are the clueless one, but you wrote the book, so it is only YOUR perspective that counts. Never mind George, or Holly, or Melissa, or any of the others you met. . .and the diverse circumstances that brought them to work at Wal Mart, Maids or Jerry's. . .and that drove me nuts.
I will elaborate chapter by chapter later, gotta get babies off to school and get some sleep:)